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  • shinycoin
    Being in a Relationship!
    Started by shinycoin 1 Reply
    Ok let me be the first to answer these tough questions....I really had to think about it but I'll try to keep it short and not rumble..... What is the one factor that is guaranteed to make a relationship succeed? Communication What is preventing you from dating or being in a committed, meaningful relationship? A lack of available partners? Not a lack of partners rather lack of eligible partners What are the best qualities you bring into a relationship? I like conversations (about everything from medicine to politics to sports); dating should be fun as well as serious. I am a great supporter and believe in 50/50. What makes you the "ONE"? and different from all the others? I am a woman after God's own heart so it's actually up to the man to find in me what he can't find in anyother woman Tell us the one person you'd want to be in a relationship with and why? Ssshhhhhh I rather not say
    Last replied by Ihu Oma on Thursday, 22 March 2012
  • cowbell
    Started by cowbell 3 Replies
    Ha! Cowbell, fear come begin dey catch me since you went AWOL. Thanks for coming up for air :-D. Yup, you have entered stage two of your new relationship and as Lala said, you are shark bait. Reel 'em in an keep em coming! Hehe. You have had a taste of the pudding and now she wants to see that you are really into her beyond the physical. What better day to pull this stunt than on Valentine's day when you would have anticipated mind-blowing sex all day. Hehehehehehe...my kind of person. She will test you like this. All women do. We need to test like this for reassurance. This is where I find men and women take different paths. Men usually don't understand what withholding sex is about. Try and pass it...no matter how much agro is worrying you :-D. About the condom, no be Wal Mart you go find am jor. You need to go to an adult shop or stag/stagette store. Tell them I sent you :-D :-D Lala, stop being jealous jor...you should be flattered on my behalf :-p
    Last replied by anwulika on Friday, 17 February 2012
  • anwulika
    Be my Valentine :-)
    Hey lovers! how is everybody doing? i hope you have all found love. If you haven't, don't stop searching. Love will find you. Speaking of "being my valentine" I suspect heavily that there is a lot of surpressed romance waiting to blossom on NVS singles club. For the love of JAH, don't bottle it up! That's the point of the group right? If there be someone whom ye adore in the deepest chamber of thine being, make an effort to reach out to them. Send them a PM. I'm pretty sure every self respecting adult member would honor the privacy of your inquiry. Don't be afraid to hear NO! Afterall, what's the worst that can happen? Fish plenty for water, as our people say. When one door shuts, another opens. Go for it friends. Ye have nothing to lose but everything to gain should it work. In the mean time, Jah bless you and HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO YOU ALL. I wish you LOVE!
    Last replied by cowbell on Monday, 13 February 2012
  • cowbell
    Trey's party..................
    @ Olu, i neva spoil reach u fa. thanks man.
    Last replied by cowbell on Sunday, 12 February 2012
  • cowbell
    Love cycles.
    Started by cowbell 9 Replies
    LOL...this na really serious questions oh!
    Last replied by cagedheart on Wednesday, 01 February 2012
  • anwulika
    Mind your manners
    Started by anwulika 1 Reply
    I second Anwulika 100% on this note. You may appeal, but that is your right, just as the administrators of the forum have the right to protect the dignity of others here.
    Last replied by shinycoin on Wednesday, 18 January 2012
  • anwulika
    Relationships, Sex and Conservatives
    The answer is simple: Cuz they love to chop and clean mouth, that's all.
    Last replied by Auspicious on Tuesday, 17 January 2012
  • Equipper
    What Qualties Do You Want In a Potential Spouse: A "Definition by Affirmation".
    Cowbell said: "... guys like us that are short with pot belly don't stand a chance abi?" Don't worry bros, some women like their women is different packaging: short, tall, potbelly, muscular...Women are a very complex, yet simple human beings.
    Last replied by Equipper on Wednesday, 18 January 2012
  • shinycoin
    Can Sex Increase Life Expectancy?:
    Started by shinycoin 1 Reply
    Maybe i should have posted this in the Health and Wellness club, because it is so obviously a health issue. My personal experience has been that sex enhances my self esteem and helps me bond better with my partner. It is especially so after we finish making love and just lie with each other and talk, or just hold and caress each other... it does wonders for my mood, blood pressure and is a great stress reliever. I find that the more often my woman and i make love, the less frequently we fight, bicker, quarrel or argue over small things... am more willing to allow her have her way, and she does the same thing for me. We're generally more agreeable towards each other and we laugh and flirt a lot more during the days and weeks after our various love making ventures. We have less things to complain or criticize about each other and we're more patient with each other. This is not so if we've been away from it for a period of time, for whatever reason. I find am more on edge, more tense, more willing to pick a fight, less cheerful, less playful and a lot less cooperative or agree with her on anything..lol For me, sex is a great therapy, but not mindless sex with just anyone that happens to be available!! For me, love making is a process..... it includes the fore play and teasing before we actually become intimate. It involves the touching and flirting, the games and laughter we share, the build up and excitement leading up to the real thing.... it starts in the mind really, and her communicating her needs to me in several small ways, and my reading those communications and responding in all the right ways. .its a game and a really delicious game, and this game can only be played with someone you're in a meaningful relationship with.. My opinion o!
    Last replied by shinycoin on Tuesday, 17 January 2012
  • shinycoin
    Co-Habitation: To be or Not to Be?
    If you lived in Lagos or some such city in naija, would you rather live in a face-me-i-face-you, one bedroom "flat", than share a 2-3 bedroom apartment with a boyfriend, Ihu Oma? I would think the longer you two lived together in the same house, the better the opportunities to get to know each other and then discuss marriage, than live apart and spend the occasional weekends together. Besides, if you both spend weekends together anyway in each others apartment anyway, why not just move in and save on rent and space?
    Last replied by shinycoin on Saturday, 14 January 2012
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