Giving back to Nigeria
Texans' Okoye organizes trip to his homeland
By MEGAN MANFULL
The two boys looked at each other and tried to hold their breath as
long as they could. They were moving to the United States, a country
they knew only through tales their father told them and what they had
seen on television.
"We were going to let go of that last breath of Nigeria air when we landed in the United States," said Arinze, 22. "I guess it was kind of silly. We thought we were going to hop on a plane and be there in no time."
Amobi, 20, is no longer the same young, naïve boy. He is a professional football player with the Texans with a $17.6 million contract.
But the more you speak with him, the more you hear a trace of his Igbo accent. And as soon as Nigeria is mentioned, the passion in his voice seeps out. This week, Amobi and Arinze are returning to Nigeria for the first time and taking with them five NFL players — Bears defensive end Adewale Ogunleye, Texans running back Ahman Green, Giants defensive end Osi Umenyiora and Bears defensive tackles Israel Idonije and Tommie Harris. They want to offer hope and a promise to return.
"The message we want to send is, 'Everybody, hold on to your dreams,' " Amobi said. " 'Hold on to your dreams and keep working hard. You never know what might happen.' "
Amobi has worked tirelessly with Arinze and their cousin, Okey Chidume, for almost three months to organize this trip, which begins Tuesday when they meet with Nigerian President Umaru Yar'Adua.
During their seven-day trip, they will outfit a Nigerian national youth soccer team with Nike clothes and equipment. They will give 20 full scholarships to young men and women preparing to attend Nigerian universities. They will fund and oversee the completion of water wells in a village in dire need of clean water. And they will deliver HIV test kits to a number of teaching hospitals to aid in the support of the HIV initiative in Nigeria.
"I knew eventually the first time I got back, I was going to do something," Amobi said. "This is just the first year. My plan is as the years go on that it will get bigger and better."
Ogunleye didn't hesitate to sign on when he was told of Amobi's idea. Ogunleye watched a steady stream of relatives move in and out of his Staten Island, N.Y., home as a child.
Their home was the first stop for many close — and distant — family members immigrating to the United States from Nigeria.
Ogunleye sometimes resented his parents' open-door policy. But Gabriel and Lawrie Ogunleye would not send anyone to a hotel no matter how crowded their home became. That's not how they were raised in Nigeria.
Now he understands
Osi Umenyiora and Adewale Ogunleye
"Nigerian kids are all basically raised the same," Ogunleye said. "There are two constants. We depend on family and we believe in giving — giving until it hurts."
Ogunleye has talked with Idonije for years about organizing an effort to aid those in Nigeria, but their talks never amounted to much action. Ogunleye gave away scholarships in Nigeria a few years ago when he visited, but he always wanted to do more.
Neither he nor Idonije expected a 20-year-old rookie to accomplish what they had hoped to start.
"This speaks a lot of the young man's character," said Idonije, who was born in Lagos, Nigeria, and lived there until he was 4. "I know at 20, that's not something I was focused on.
"Amobi sees the bigger picture in life, and I'm glad to be working with him."
Amobi was taught similar values as Ogunleye growing up. Arinze and Chidume, 24, share Amobi's home in Houston with him. Okoye's father calls daily to check on all three of them.
Edna and Augustine Okoye's message of giving sank in so well with their sons it has caused Edna concern recently. Amobi's decision to organize the Nigeria trip wasn't met with sheer enthusiasm from her.
"It's not exactly what I hoped for," Edna said. "It was a very stressful season for him. I told him, 'I don't think you have rested in the past five years.' All through college, he was busy trying to get his (psychology) degree in 3 1/2 years. Spring, summer and fall, it was nonstop. Then in December of last year, he started to prepare to go to the draft."
"He has never really rested, so I was thinking this would be a time for him to really relax. Really, fully relax. Putting this thing together, you're not extending any physical energy, but the mental energy is draining."
there have been sleepless nights.
But the small trip they started planning in December has grown and developed into something they are proud of.
"No player that we talked to turned us down," Chidume said. "Everyone is seeing what we are seeing from it. We want to help improve other people's lives. Help improve living conditions and help improve education.
"Now, sponsors were different, of course. Many of them said, 'Well, you know we can't help you with this, but keep us posted.' But the athletes, jumped on board."
The players are financing much of the trip out of their own pockets. Their closest advisers are family members.
Ogunleye's father is in Emure, Ekiti State, overseeing the completion of the water wells, which are in his hometown.
All in the familyAugustine Okoye will travel and help the group all week. In the end, he will evaluate what they need to do to make the next trip more successful.
"This is always the case in something new, you don't depend on outsiders to do it," Augustine Okoye said. "When you start something new, you are going to have to put a lot of your own money and a lot of your own effort there. People are going to sit by the side and watch to see if you fly or fail. And when you fly, that's when everybody is going to come to your aid and say, 'Oh, don't worry about this. I'll pay for this. I'll do this and this and that and that.' But the initial steps are going to have to be 90 percent, if not, 100 percent your effort."
The players are OK with that. Ogunleye wants to make sure it remains driven by the players participating. He doesn't want corporations taking it over, and players just going through the motions during the trip.
The players insist the key is to simply return. Idonije said the success will be measured not by what they accomplish in one week, but what they can accomplish years from now.
"If it's something we just do once, that is not a success to me," Idonije said. "It has to continue. It has to grow and become a functioning thing on its own so that when there is no more Israel, no more Amobi and no more Adewale, the program is still there and providing opportunities for people who need it."
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that's very thoughtful of the young men, i hope they have a safe trip and very successful time in Nigeria. i also hope politicians will give them all the encouragement they need, that will also help other wealthy nigerians in diaspora to think about doing something positive in the country.
..make we dey pray for their safety...amen!
Nigerians is the most Strongest & intelligent people On Planet,
Poverty & Corruption by Our Leaders that affecting our mentality.
America & Europe should learn how to mention our positive achievements,
Big Thanks to Those Guys that represent Us in a POSITIVE WAY.
Big Shame to Opray winfrey,
GOD BLESS NIGERIA, GOD BLESS YORUBAS
Very nice initiative.
Some necessary stimuli for a very thoughtless government of looters.
I wish these guys a safe stay in Nigeria and I hope that all their plans and expectations are fulfilled.
Thinking out loud and ..........Getting an impression that some Nigerians abroad can govern Nigeria by proxy and bring better life to 140m oppressed people. This is something far reaching than the stipends of WUMT.
Well done gentlemen, may your stars continue to shine!
let us make and keep this story about these incredible young men. please, leave politicians out of it.
it is always heart-warming to hear about the positive contributions nigerians make to nigeria and the world at large on a daily basis. of course, these stories bear no juice, so they are rarely reported. and if reported, hidden in the metro section on page 33 1/2!
as much as we nigerians get a bad rap about partaking in fraudulent schemes , i have never seen us in that light. when i see nigerians, i see a smart, driven, go-getter and generous people. i see doctors and nurses and lawyers and teachers and just good ol people who like to have fun! i believe that most nigerians see themselves the same way.
nigerian professional athletes have always carried themselves with such class and dedication to their art ...re: hakeem olajuwon, christian okoye, sampson siasia and a host more. you rarely, if ever, hear of nigerian athletes mirred in scandals (except one or two cases in european football). this is actually a true reflection of the general nigerian populace. we are a generous, God-fearing people who have found ourseleves in extraordinarily challenging circumstances. however, the essence of who we are is good stock.
a few years ago when the nigerian siamese twins were airlifted to johns hopkins university hospital in baltimore, maryland for their "seperation' surgery, i was in lagos chilling with the fellows when the evening news came on. one of the surgeons and spokesperson for the hospital, after a successful surgery, was a dr. tinubu, who i immediately recognised. he was an aquaintance from our days as school mates at howard university in washington, dc. that was an extremely proud moment for me, both as a howard man and, most especially, as a nigerian.
it has been rumoured that if all the nigerian doctors and nurses quit their jobs at the howard university hospital, the hospital will go out of business! true or false, i love that stat! we are not all criminals afterall!!
while we wallow in our seemingly, unending bouts of corruption in our society, the story of these young men is uplifting to the spirit.....this is story that is repeated on all corners of the globe by nigerians, most nameless and faceless! we need to give a name and face to these heroes to mankind!
we are the silent majority!
In these young Nigerian men we see what I believe will be the eventual salvation of Nigeria. Nigerians both home and abroad sidestepping the politicians and politics and the madness that is Nigeria and affecting the lives of everyday Nigerians.
Kudos to the gentlemen, I hope the trip is a success.
What a nice way to teach our politicians the act of nation building. While these boys are looking for a way to bringing in wealth from foreign land for the benefit of the masses (at least their immediate locality), our politician leaders, unfortunately, are actively engaged in exporting our huge wealth to the rich countries of Europe and America, denying the Nigerian masses the basics of life. IF ONLY OUR POLITICIANS COULD LEARN FROM THE ACTIONS OF THESE POSITIVE YOUNG NIGERIANS THAT A FULFILLED LIFE IS MORE OF WHAT YOU AND I CAN CONTRIBUTE TO THE WELFARE OF THE LESS PRIVILEDGE AND MUCH LESS OF WHAT WE CAN GRAB FROM IT.
God go bless you guys nyafu nyafu. Have a safe trip to naija and back to what you do best.
Beyond spaco's dumb comment, the obvious subtext here is, Why does a Nigerian have to go to the West (usually America) to make something of him- or herself?
When will Nigeria be a net IMPORTER of people, who come here to realize their dreams? When will Nigeria give its own children a future? The most obvious problem is the corrupt elites, but the honest observer has to say, "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." Why do Nigerians just take this daily abuse from their politicians? When will they rise up and say, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH?
Its nice to know that Nigerians that have made name for themselves abroad are coming back to give something back to their country....the thoughts and the gesture is enough reason we have to appreciate them....lets face fact! alot of Nigerians living in nigeria with alot of cash havent given back to their country..lets encourage these superstars with their dream for our country....
I actually was priviledged to watch them on A.I.T Kakaki today expressing their intentions..they re giving scholarships to students, they are also doing some bore holes for good drinking water to the rural areas, they are also giving free medical treatment and test for nigerians...its a wonderful idea.....they re currently in Abuja doing their thing..
Thumps up to them!!!!! at least them remember they re nigerians!!!