HMMMMM a confusing situation I have been in this relationship for nine years and the relationship seemed to be going nowhere so i decided to take the bull by its horn and call it off though i loved him so much i had to do what i felt was right at that point in time, after a while my boyfriend came back begging promising to take the relationship to the next level which was marriage, well i accepted the offer. He confessed to me that he had a relationship and that he was going to call it off i believed him even though i wasn't in the same town with him while she was in the same town with him. The painful part of it is that some weeks back i recieved a message from him that it was over between us, well i responded with insults immediately cos i was hurt by his actions, a day after he called me asking why i sent him such a message and he said he didn't send it, that he was sorry about it, that the message was sent to me by his girlfriend in essence he still seeing her, right now i don't know whether i should let go of the relationship or i should forgive him and pretend nothing happened what do i do am so worried. i need advise. though i still love him i want to do what is right.