I am so confused about what to do very soon. I am caught up between either choosing another wedding ceremony in a romantic get away like in Europe or in the Caribbean, or to follow my heart and just celebrate quietly and privately and divert the money for a wedding celebration to getting me a very exquisite jewellry that I like to have. Really very expensive and timeless. But I fear hurting the feelings of my other half who really likes to symbolise our union through celebrations like that and at least get me to swear, promise and commit in ceremony to him. But for me I am marriage phobia and wouldn't have even been married if I could have my way to keep things like that. As I think that commitment in such matters is inside ones heart and a deal with ones own creator. Nothing at all to do with who witnessed, officialised or involved in ceremony. People still do all that stuff and yet it doesn't mean anything to them and they treat each other badly or just disregard their commitments no matter the ceremony involved. Please..how can I get this Bling...Bling as opposed to wasting the money for a ceremony that I don't like ?