May I suggest that you focus attention on yourself. What do you want and how do you want to achieve it. I am not talking about "MAN". Believe me, no man wants a poor woman. Everyman wants a woman that has something to offer besides love. You cannot eat love. You can shag it very very well but that is about it.
I squarely echo what the others have said, focus on you. What kind of business do you want to start; how much capital do you need; can it start of as a hobby then grow; can you do it from home, etc. All these are achieveables and tangiable.
Without wanting to be critical, it is imperative that you begin to help yourself and live your life. You know, sometimes when it looks like you are too dependent on a man, they bolt off like horses. Honestly (please the men's club should not respond)
As for meeting people on the net . I am a bush woman, je je. You can never tell if he is the axe murderer sounding all nice or a serial rapist. Abeg, I no get power for dat kind wahala.
If this is a real story, you have come to the right place?