If at the end of the day, He just wants Honda and narrin else will do, she should just go back to her Sunny..how for do?
She may have been training him on how to treat her thus, without realising it.
Agens...the thing is, we teach people how to treat us.
Hubby did not wake up one day and decided on the asset grab.
I bet she has never even told him how she feels about his behaviour.
She should talk with him, and find out what informs his behaviour, and tell him how she feels about being treated that way.
Depending on what he says, she will then, based on her knowledge of his personality, and history of conflict resolution,, decide how best to handle him, and still maintain peace and harmony in the home.
Dont forget that if the Man is free and generous with his own things, he is just assuming she would be same. So it may not be a case of over-lordship, per se.
If she is not happy she should talk to him....Talk is good...very very good.