by, Dec 10, 2009 at 11:55 PM (1468 Views)
Out of all the seasons, I love winter least... I truly prefer to take clothes off than drone them on, so winter is not my favorite. The flip side is that's when many people get "romantic", yes, I did start two relationships last year December and one "could" just have made it if not for the "age issue".
So winter has come again, and I'm, "I don't know how to call it", em, a "little more flirtatious" this year, or maybe I've just grown in the dating game. Anyway, I have my "levels" that my men go through, I will liken it to the temple on Mt Moriah.
Outside the gate (screening stage) - this is where I find out the basics; age (did I say age?... once bitten twice wise as my old pastor puts it), when born-again (if not born again, must become or that ends it), must speak in tongues (if not, must be willing or that ends it), monogamous-minded (if not, that ends it), attends church at least once a week (if not, must be willing or that ends it) and lastly if a father, must be involved in child's life, if not that ends it.
If a man passes that (he passes through the gate), he moves on to the outer court, this is where most of them fail, this is the personality, values and spirituality walk test...then we proceed to the holy place (meeting family etc.) and finally the holy of holies (lifetime commitment, wedding).
One guy is attempting to pass the outer court stage and proceed to holy place... hmm, this is scary, especially since it began as holiday love...aaah... Adonai HELP, bashem Yeshua!