Re: Femi Fani-Kayode for Gov. Political Suicide or What?
It has been brought to my attention that some comments that I wrote on a note that was sent to me by my friend Kemi Olunloyo, in which she highlighted the fact that both she and her children had been traumatised by the activities of one Mr. Adetokunboh Adejumo, has caused tremendous offence to a number of people on face book who erroneously believe that those comments reflected my views about the Nigerian people. This is not so and the fact that someone could lift those comments from that thread, isolate them, make them public and send them out to many facebook walls without including the reasons that provoked them in the first place speaks volumes and reflects the sheer mischief that was behind the rushed circulation.
I wish to use this medium to make it abundantly clear that those comments were not directed at the Nigerian people or those that are less privilaged than me but rather at an individual who I had been reliably informed had made it his life's ambition to smear and destroy Kemi, her children and their future and to pull down all those that he believed were from prominent families in Nigeria, including mine, for no just cause. My concerns about this sinister agenda were made all the worse and even more pronounced by the fact that my own children and family were also victims of an equally vicious campaign of calmuny and disinformation only a few days ago when I was wrongly accused of putting "nude" pictures of my children on facebook.
The truth is that having been through all that I could easily empathise with Kemi's pain and anger because of what I had just experienced myself and this was especially so since she is a single mother raising 4 children all on her own. I therefore reacted on the spur of the moment and spoke my heart and I did so in a very blunt and frank manner. I look back on it now and I conseed that my words and sentiments were harsh and inappropriate and that, worst still, they could easily have been misconstrued when taken out of the proper context of the general discussion that was going on that thread. I never thought that anyone would have any reason to do that but it was done for reasons best known to those that did it and the rest is history.
I therefore not only take this opportunity to formally withdraw the said comments but I also wish to make it abundantly clear that I have nothing but the greatest respect for ALL Nigerians from ALL walks of life regardless of their roots or background. I also wish to humbly apologise to all those that felt offended or hurt by them. I believe that this is necessary in view of the fact that I do believe that my sense of outrage at what had been done to Kemi had propelled me to go too far and offer what I can now look back and confidently say was a disproportionate and unecessarily harsh response. I assume full responsibilty for my words and actions and I wish to also apologise to Kemi Olunloyo and Tokunboh Adejumo for the additional stress that my contribution to this unsavoury matter may have caused both of them and their respective families. I hope that they can eventually settle their differences and I wish them both the very best. Finally I have taken the liberty of attaching the original note that was sent to me by Kemi that provoked the discussion in the first place in order to put the whole matter in it's proper context.
Thank you and all the best.
Here's the referent note
SEXUALLY EXPLICIT: AKINTOKUNBO ADEJUMO'S SEXUAL HARRASEMENT REFUSAL EXPOSES KEMI OMOLOLU-OLUNLOYO'S "SECRET" PAST.
Adejumo Akintokunbo is an Ibadan man who left his wife and kids in London to go home to Ibadan to scan the political atmosphere so he can become Governor. He has been flirting with me on Facebook.....only to now say he wants us to have a secret rendevous in his place when I come to Ibadan. He'll have a special place for me to stay. He writes to me provocatively in a phone sex manner and asks me questions like "are u wet? I am hard as a rock etc." Nobody has to know he says.
After blasting FFK, my dad, Gbemi Saraki etc, I decided that he gets lost with his views. He now circulates my note which he must have received from my fan page yesterday around with an old article of my ordeal with my autistic son in the states calling me a criminal who left my child in the cold, slapped my brother etc. There is no such thing as BLACKMAIL, so if you think this is such, not true! I AM SIMPLY ISSUING A STATEMENT ON BEHALF OF MY FAMILY. THIS NOTE WILL BE TAGGED OPEN ON FB AND ON A GOOGLE SERVER SO THAT EVERYONE CAN REALLY KNOW MY PAST.
I DON'T KNOW THIS MAN AND HIS WIFE but to sexually harass me, deny it and run a note about my ordeal in America creating a forum where ppl call me a terrorizing a judge, cruel to my own child, calling KJ ugly deranged child who smeared faeces on the wall in foster care after they took him away? Below are some of the comments. Kunle Ogundamisi who fishes all over FB for articles now posts it on his page too and there are 2 forums and a lot of insults and insesitivity. Why would Adejumo make fun of someone else's lifelong ordeal? The comments below came from both their threads...
Adams Alabi: "The big son Eni would beat her silly n little ugly son of hers KJ,"That little son of hers is also mentally deranged cuz when he stayed at Nigerian foster parent, he would smear d wall with feces and cry endlessly."
Augusta O. Aguinede: "All this spoilt brats sent abroad with our stolen naija money. all of them have turned out for the worst. terrorist, bipolar, and prostitutes......GOD is punishing them for generational sins from their occultist parents."
Foley Wisdom: "Alafowofa, You have one last chance to repair the damages you have caused to the whole of Olunloyo family, REPENT PUBLICLY, I am confident God will resurrect you and I beleive all this people that hates you can change their minds and start to show you love. If this stragedy of yours is to gain publicity - sack your PA immediately before he get you handcuffed. By the way, those pamcake in your face will not be allowed in the Mosque, becareful you don't get stoned to death."
Akin Akinfe "@MadameOlukemi Omololu-Olunloyo please respect urself and hold ur head up high, it is a known fact that ur father is a thug in his political days, but u must change people views about him by your positive deeds, u cannot bully or threaten people anymore we r wiser now, may God be with you in this trying times," Omo wani Eje O se" do you remember that phrase."
Monday Midnite: "KAYODE is one of the most upright, straight forward and fearless advocate of a BETTER NIGERIA I'm heartily grateful to be friends with on FB. Threatening him rubs me the wrong way. So I strongly advice my dear sister Kemi to quickly make amends and extend an olive branch to my beloved brother Kayode so that we can all move on in peace."
I WAS UP ALL NIGHT READING THE THREADS WITH PPL IN 4 CONTINENTS! BELOW ARE ALL HIS OFFENSIVE MESSAGES......LADIES DO NOT ALLOW SOME NIGERIAN MEN TO TREAT YOU LIKE THIS. IF I REALLY NEED A MAN IN MY LIFE, I ALREADY HAVE A REALITY SHOW ON FB AND PLENTY ON TV. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU MEET AND TALK TO ONLINE.....TO EVERYONE THAT MADE FUN OF ME, ASK ALLAH FOR FORGIVENESS. I AM A PUBLIC PERSON AND NEVER HAVE ANYTHING TO HIDE. IGNORANCE DOES NOT EXCUSE STUPIDITY. MARRIED MEN, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WRITE ONLINE BEHIND YOUR WIFE UNLESS OF COURSE YOU HAVE AN OPEN MARRIAGE. A WORD TO THE WISE!
Adetokunbo Adejumo: "Seems like I stirred up the hornet's nest." YOU SURE MOTHERFOCKN DID!" AM I FOR REAL WAS THE TITLE OF YOUR POST?" YES SIR!!
Between Akintokunbo Adejumo and You
Akintokunbo Adejumo February 28 at 5:21pm
"Kemi. Please I am not specifically referring to your Dad, who was my hero in those days as a mathematical genius. I like him and give him much respect. Like I said, his tenure was too short to evaluate him.
Ask him if he knows my Dad, late Chief Akinlade Adejumo, founder and Principal of Igbo Elerin Grammar School.
The issue combines many fathers, and hence we try to address as one issue, so part of the mud will always hit your father too, but it is not intentional.
As for Gbemi Saraki and her kin, I am sorry, I have absolutely no respect or love for them for what part they have played in the ignoble history of the country. Tell me, what has Gbemi done for her people or for this country? Do the Sarakis own Kwara State? Come on, gal.
I have to speak the truth. I cant do otherwise, Kemi. You are lucky, your father is not tainted, but please do not fight the cause of the others who we are just watching and considering God's punishment on.
MadameOlukemi Omololu-Olunloyo February 28 at 5:22pm
Do you realize my father is reading all that thread? You said our fathers do not have good names? I am quite angry at you. Why the hell would you insult us. What's your opinion of Toyin Fani-Kayode's comment about her nieces exploitation by Sahara and Kayode Ogundamisi?
Akintokunbo Adejumo February 28 at 5:24pm
She has nothing to say really. So she better keep quiet. Her brother still has a case with the EFCC, and I have reminded him of that the moment he said he wants to go for Governorship of Osun State. I think he deleted me from his friends shortly after that. I don't give a shit about anybody. As for you? I do want you and give you that special something you crave.
MadameOlukemi Omololu-Olunloyo February 28 at 5:26pm
Tokunbo, also why do you flirt with me on FB? Do you have a crush on me or do you just want me for something?
Akintokunbo Adejumo February 28 at 5:27pm
I do. You look so lusty and sexy, I could eat you up. Can we Skype so I can hear your voice and see you?
MadameOlukemi Omololu-Olunloyo February 28 at 5:28pm
Mmmm...You are trying to make me wet already! Won't your wife get solidly mad at you?
Akintokunbo Adejumo February 28 at 5:30pm
Like I said, this is between two consenting adults, hot hard sex nobody has to know. You can come stay with me if you don't want to stay at home when you come to Ibadan.
MadameOlukemi Omololu-Olunloyo February 28 at 5:31pm
Tell me your state of mind this second!
Akintokunbo Adejumo February 28 at 5:33pm
I'm hard as a rock!.....(pause breathing heavily) You know we shorter guys have it longer to please you!
This is exactly why I asked men to stop masturbating to my picture. I was referring to ONE SINGLE MAN! The one that I would eventually continue to test if he was an infidel. Adejumo wanted and affair with me and promised to keep me in one of his many residences to become his sex slave and call it between consenting adults? I even offered to be his second wife and he was so flattered. Imagine the insult. What and who do you think I was? He continued for a while and I had to tell him to stop or I will post them. He eventually felt he could trash me for a single note I wrote for ppl not to do certain annoying things around me. Infidelity is absolutely wrong! I hope I have made my point! You owe me, my kids, your kids and your wife an apology....I HOPE I never set my eyes on you in my lifetime! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WICKED!
Madame Olukemi Omololu-Olunloyo...
March 20th 2010