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| Tuesday, 08 August 2006 | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Civilisation from a general perspective can be said to mean; A society in an advanced state of social development. The quality of refinement and excellence in thoughts, manners, and tastes. Civilisation is also variously described as being the opposite of barbarity. Going by the articles and comments paraded in internet forums, NVS, beer parlours, and the frequent bloodletting that is unleashed on other Nigerians particularly in the North, I am persuaded to believe that a significant proportion of Nigerians would comfortably fall into the category of being uncivilised. What is more tragic and worrying, is that even Diaspora Nigerians who have the blessing and benefit of being exposed to highly organized societies, where the rule of law reigns supreme, still seems unable to shake off the rigid Nigerian mentality that sometimes justifies even the unimaginable and absurd. These category of Diaspora Nigerians live in the western world physically, but still live in We have recently had an author in the NVS (name withheld) who lives in the History bears witness, that all those in various capacities who killed others on account of flimsy stereotypes where all demonised. From Hitler, to Idi-Amin, to Pol- Pot and back home to General Sanni Abacha etc. The verdict of history has rightly condemned these men to infamy. Stereotypes abound in every society, there is no shortage of it in Nigeria, but look outside your window, observe the men and women of every ethnic group passing in the streets, go to schools, churches, offices, etc and observe these men and women of every ethnic group, and ask yourself honestly; how many of these Yorubas, Igbos, Efiks, and Ijaws actually fit the ignorant stereotypes about them that are being bandied about? In all cases you would find that the stereotypes just dont fit. Some ignoramus cook up stereotypes from their experience with just 1 or 2 people from an ethnic group, and go on to label the whole group as being the same. Violence is something which all human beings just like animals are capable of unleashing, thus the saying that, nobody has a monopoly over violence. The Igbo, Yoruba, Ijaw etc have just as much capacity to kill, but you dont see them doing that, not because they cant, but because of the level of civilisation inherent in the South. In was in There is no town in the East where you will not see a large cluster of Northerners from Killing would not be something that is new to Ndigbo (remember Biafran war) we can do it quite creatively. But we are not animals; we hold human life to be sacred and sacrosanct because of our, at least little civilisation Nigerian standard. That to me is the basic difference between us and them Some commentators have accused Ndigbo of feeling superior to other ethnic groups; there can be nothing farther from the truth. As I have said before elsewhere, Ndigbo are neither superior nor inferior to any group. We all, as Gods children are born equal. The problem seems to be that people misinterpret self appraisal as construing, a feeling of superiority, but this is happening largely because the Nigerian mind has been programmed to see things only from a tribal perspective. Ndigbo have also significantly undertaken a lot of self criticism openly, perhaps even a little bit more than other ethnic groups. There is nothing wrong with a Yoruba lad for example, undertaking some form of self appraisal saying; Yorubas are statistically the most educated Nigerians, this ordinarily should not be construed to mean that Yorubas are feeling superior to other Nigerians, just as an Igbo lad, saying Igbos are individually quite enterprising or hardworking should also not ordinarily be construed to mean that Igbos are feeling superior to other ethnic groups. Other Nigerians from other ethnic groups sometimes do make the same observations of positive attributes about the Yoruba, Igbo, Ijaw, or Efik etc. We need to be more objective and open-minded in our outlook towards such issues to avoid jumping to the wrong conclusions. That is not to say we would not have some pedestrian, paranoid, loud, and overtly boastful individuals from time to time, as they exist in every ethnic group, but we should be able to isolate and ignore such freak individuals who are only a tiny minority. I have often been highly critical of the extremist elements of the Caliphate North, not because I hate them, most honestly I feel more of pity for such obviously very ignorant and uncivilised extremist elements who have absolutely no value for human life. The reason for my quarrel with the North has been quite specific. The re-occurring scandalous and shameful religious violence is a problem that has been identified by all and sundry as a national catastrophe and shame. And one that is quite capable of starting another war, and tearing the nation apart. Unfortunately there has been no moderate voices in the North seeking to put an end to such barbarity, lending credence to the long held believe that the Northern establishment is behind the killings. Part of the Image problem we Nigerians are facing, is directly linked to the barbaric killings in the North. The world wonders what kind of an uncivilised people we are, that such killings are taking place randomly, when you can not even kill a dog and go Scot free in their own societies. An Irishman I disagreed with, once called me nothing but an animal and justified it by saying, we slaughter ourselves in our society. That is a clear reflection of how they see us. Civilised man is supposed to be highly refined, and excellent in thoughts, manners, and tastes. Obviously if a great majority of Nigerians had these attributes, our outlook, way of life, and society would have been very different. Most of the differences we see on ethnic and religious divides would not exist. The North which I pity so much is the worst hit. They are generally and comparatively more lacking in these attributes of finesse, and excellence in thoughts and manners. That explains why they are ever so unconscionably quick to hack their erstwhile neighbours to death. We as a people should strive to attain the highest levels of all the attributes of civilisation. Once that is achieved, the attendant harmony will unshackle our abundant energies into more productive and constructive ideas for the re-awakening and reconstruction of our dying nation. Email:
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Posted by Robot| 08.08.2006 07:16