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Written by Hakeem Babalola   
Wednesday, 19 December 2007

I am on my knees as I write this….

Before I go in perspective, I would like to ask some simple questions. Why is it that nobody wants to be associated with armed robbers? Why is it that even if one benefits from the proceeds of an armed robber, one is ashamed to say so in public? Why do Nigerians detest armed robbers so much? Why do parents disown their children who are armed robbers? Why is it that armed robbers themselves are not proud of what they do?

I think the answers to the above questions are as simple as ABC, yet it is somehow difficult for Nigerians to understand the sequence of logic in order to solve their daily problems in line with a profession quite similar to armed robbery. Or have you met any Nigerian who is audacious enough to introduce his or her sibling or friend as an armed robber? Even wives or lovers, despite the fact that they know that their partners are men of the underworld, and probably support them; they do not dare defend them as such in public.

Though such denial has not basically licked the problems in question, the psychological and sociological stigma attached to it are still effective. If a daredevil is still afraid and ashamed to tell people his profession, then we know that he is aware that he is an outcast. We know that such character lives in fear even though he terrorizes the minds of his victims. We know that his mind is being terrorized by his action. We know that he is psychologically defeated. We know that he can never be as proud even as someone who belongs to the bottom of the totem pole. You know the ones I am talking about. Don’t you?

Kudos to the Nigerian families for defeating the spirits of the men of the underworld. I believe it is their refusal to recognise these daredevils in our midst that has contributed immensely to the downfall of armed robbery as a profession. Though these lunatics dash harum-scarum all over our communities, the fact remains they are not proud of what they do. They are bound to remain in infernal region even before they visit the House of Hades.

However, it would be a thing of joy if the Nigerian families could extend their tentacles in order to defeat another "professions" quite similar to that of armed robbery. I am talking about polieatics and pen-robbery. These two "professions" have caused as many damages as that of armed robbery. Without mincing words, I violently believe it is the Nigerian families that can successfully thwart the passage of rottenness in our society. For a while moral degeneracy has followed intellectual degeneration. Let the Nigerian families fight.

Corruption. Fighting its opium parlors is easy yet it often appears challenging; it is such an herculean task. I don't want to pretend as if I don't know this. But every Nigerian family can help eradicate the various turpitudes of our communities. I trust we can do it if we want. And this is exactly where the trouble lies. It seems we do not want to cure our depravity. Then why do we chew solutions like kola nut every moment? Why don't we just accept the fact that we know the solution but we don't want the problem solved?

The reason for begging the Nigerian families is actually to re-direct their approach and thinking towards the life we live regarding corruption. If they didn't know, it's time someone told them that the way they herald and honour public officials who stole money, is part of the dangerous and funny aspect of corruption. A Nigerian who is not corrupt is often referred to as being foolish. He is a suegbe. He or she becomes the joke of the family as well as colleagues. Nigerians who have determined to curb corruption would be surprised their spouses and even children are not with them in such a bold act.

There is also contradiction even among those who seem to genuinely abhor corruption; they adore it in other circumstances. For example, is there any Nigerian who can beat her chest saying, "if my relatives assumed public office, I would not directly or indirectly put pressure on them for financial help?" I don't know what my family would think should I assume public office. Is my family going to express great joy, thinking it is now their turn to share the so-called national cake, which is far disappearing anyway?

Would they stay away from asking for contract? If they came for it and I refused them, would they still be my family or friends? Or would they hurrriedly call a family meeting, and admonish me for being foolish? would they say, "Oh, by tomorrow you shall be in tears over lost opportunities? Would they laugh at me thinking I have lost touch with reality? Would I be able to withstand such pressure? In short, what would become of me if I refused to sully my hands by accepting bribe?

This aspect of us frightens me as much as a politician's pilfering fingers. As I said earlier, the solution is pretty simple. What if we treat corrupt public officials and pen-robbers as armed robbers? What if no one addresses Umaru Yar'Adua for example, as president because of the way he had assumed office? What if the families of Obasanjo, Babangida, Adedibu, Uba and co disown them because of the way they have made people suffer? It is virtually impossible to move forward when people like James Ibori, Alao Akala, Orji Kalu, Alams, Fayose, Atiku, Objoke, IBTief and so on are being hailed as heroes.

The idea is this: if your spouse is a governor and has stolen people's money, divorce him immediately or if he is your lover, dump him as soon as possible. If yours is a son or daughter or father or mother or sister who is a senator, legislator, local chairperson; and he or she has stolen people's wealth, disown him or her. Let it continue like this. It is simple. Isn't it? But it is equally challenging. Am I right?

Nigerian families must be honest with themselves. They must stop deceiving themselves thinking corruption could be eradicated without lending a helping hand. Nigerian families must know that they have been implicitly enriching corruption. Whenever they are ready to get rid of this impairment of virtue and moral principles, let them take the bull by the horn. Let them treat corrupt officials including election riggers as armed robbers. Other alternatives would be wasting of time. It is Nigeria we are talking about.

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Posted by Robot| 20.12.2007 04:02

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Outside of your insistence on the use of the term " armed robber" .
I am in agreement that the Nigerian family needs to develop to the point where a 'calender' bearing the image of a thieving public official is torn off the wall,
the TV channel is changed when Yar Adua or Goodluck Johnathan come on air,
These disgraceful public figures should get rotten eggs and "pap" thrown at their motorcade when they scream through town.
Churches/Mosques should turn down their offerings/tithes/gifts,
Universities should accord them no 'Visitor' status.
The press should suspend the use of " Excellency" for this men and women.

If we want to stem the continuation of the "Nigerian factor" trend.
The time to do something is now.
The generations to come need to know things can be done differently.

All robbers are the same, armed or not. "Penned" or not.
So the word is robber, thief, 'ole', 'jaguda', 'barawo'
The act is stealing, theft ...
The usage of the words "Corruption and Misappropriation" is just an attempt to soften the gravity of the act.

Lets face the facts.

Posted by fxo| 20.12.2007 04:34

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Hakeem,


You are right on target! This is our situation in Nigeria. The very worst of all is our academic institutions where every Thief, Rigger and criminals are given honorary degrees; just pay your due and you get it.

I will give a typical example from my own family, when Tam David-West was relieved of his post as the Petroleum Minister, most family members admonished him calling him a slack man, foolish man etc. Their conclusion, every Petroleum minister past or present is millionaire, mean while you David-West went to that Ministry preaching holier than thou...

Question, go back to the list of people given national honors in OBJ regime, only probably the sports men actually deserve it, most of all others are political jobbers who are suppose to be in jail.

It is sorry state in Nigeria. Presently, the popular slogan is "Only God gives power to whoever he wants" even when the mandate is stolen. They even go as far as using the peoples money to advertise such dubious campaign on big bill boards. It is Ludicrous!

Posted by Onari| 20.12.2007 11:48

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Thanks for this article. The Nigerian family is at risk. I wonder what happened to the values we used to have.

Armed robbers, cult members and all undesirable social and political misfits and miscreants should be paraded with their families when apprehended. We need to know which family they are from and who raised and supported their evil activities. That way, parents and guardians will know and accept their responsibility in ensuring that they build a good family that will build a good Nigeria.

It is too often that we see that the youth who are cult members, have fathers who are cult members.
The youth who are robbing and killing people have parents who are stealing from government coffers or from their offices or employers.

The current problems we are witnessing in Nigerian is in fact, a result of the loss of basic family values. We must fix this problem first.

Posted by Atomic Kitten| 20.12.2007 13:17

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